Friday, December 10, 2010

Psychology

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The problem with trying to understand people, though, is that people are complex, and change all the time. We learn from our experiences, we form good intentions, and we are acted on by circumstances. So what we do can be influenced by a great many different factors. Also, everyone has their own ideas and opinions about what people are really like. These ideas can influenced what we do and also how we interpret what other people are doing. And since we each have had different lives, and have learned from our experiences, these ideas can be very different from one person to the next.
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2 comments:

  1. Yeap, Chinese says "One Rice creates Hundred Kinds of People".

    In Investlah, all sorts of people exist. If you are a very conservative and well mannered person putting yourself forward to talk to all these people, we have to accept them as such.
    Of course, we must control our inner self and not let these people influence us so much.

    Leno, I like the way you fight and discuss thing as we think politically alike. Talking to those people who have no manners and are very anti-establishment sometimes really feel like 'vomit blood'. Furthermore, there are so many of them around to back them blindly. Maybe they can't see what we see or maybe we can't see what they see. That's why we always argue over small political issues like TBH, Najib, etc.

    My simple advice is just "take it easy". Don't shout or talk vurgar back to them in the forum because this kind of foul languages often give us a bad image and 'unprofessionalism'. Protect our image as much as we can and be as humble as we can always. Generally people would be happy with us.

    Uyafr gets disturbed and be critised because of his ultra egoness. I like his stock pick and his honesty but not his boastfullness. People would accept him with open arms if he can change.

    At times, while trading in stock, it is also not so appropriate to discuss so openly in the forum. All sorts of hippocrates are around looking at us and taking advantage of us. But of course, we have to participate somehow in order to learn as well as to share. The more we participate, the more experienced we become. Once we have learned enough, we can be well liberated. That's why, I see you putting up a blog here is a very good move. You can jolly invite the people you like to discuss the things that you want. Isn't it beautiful?

    Your blog I have gone through quite abit is in fact very nice and imformative. You can say I truly like it very much.

    Do accept my Congratulations to you. I do hope Uyafr can also open up a personal blog like your's. I too wish to join his blog if invited.

    Warmest Regards.
    KT Ng

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  2. Dont u feel funny and ever wonder that even how vulgar, barbaric, evil-head, and black heart, and yet leno had never been warned or banned from Investlah ?
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    Dont ask leno why ... kah kah kah ...
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    Leno objective in Investlah is to achieve 1 million page hit per month ... by any mean, .. by hook or by crook ! Mission accomplished.
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    Leno told admin to test FREEDOM of Speech, and leno promised that he will be surprised on the result. This is all based on a simple biological "Theory of Evolution" which leno applied and practised for fun in the forum.
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    There are few more experiments (mainly psychological) done by Leno, since Leno so FREE due to BORING VALUE INVESTING maarr ... all completed and results are as expected.
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    Leno got no idea about uyarf. But he sounded like "Tikus", whom was Leno's partner in the forum when Leno first registered actively. Tikus share the same mission as Leno, which is to restructured the forum into more active and tolerating community. U see, many nasty things happen before both of us start to become active.
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    Few of my blog missions already being accomplished. Mainly to serve as a template to other investor-blogger for eg. how to organise the labels, etc,etc.
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    Currently, i am using the blog as part of my studying method.
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    I am happi u like the blog, .. but please make sure u dont fall in love with me, because i am "straight" , stay married and already have two kids.
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